Citation

Leichtentritt RD, Leichtentritt J, Mahat Shamir M. J. Soc. Work 2018; 18(5): 548-577.

Copyright

(Copyright © 2018, SAGE Publishing)

DOI

10.1177/1468017316656091

PMID

unavailable

Abstract

Raising children, while challenging in the best of times, can be more complicated for a woman who lost her own mother during her childhood/adolescent years. This study examines the long-term impact of maternal suicide as evident in the mothering experiences of 12 Israeli women.

FINDINGS: The participants' descriptions reveal a constant Sisyphean struggle to move away from their legacy only to be pulled back--a fervent wish to be different from their mothers along with the simultaneous realization that they cannot escape their past. This continuing struggle is captured through four themes: (a) being a mother long before having children, (b) the past casting a pall over the present, (c) mothering as a means of fixing what is broken, and (d) the lack of a maternal model: an irrevocable absence. Applications: The results of this study are discussed from an emotional socialization perspective which points to the relevance of two theoretical perspectives: the modeling and the compensation views of emotional socialization in the participants' mothering experiences. These views can help social workers both to understand and to attend to the distinctive difficulties of mothers who have survived the suicide of their own mothers. © The Author(s) 2016.

Language: en

Keywords

suicide; bereavement; qualitative research; Social work; parenting; grief and loss