Citation

Moulding NT, Buchanan F, Wendt S. Child Abuse Rev. 2015; 24(4): 249-260.

Copyright

(Copyright © 2015, John Wiley and Sons)

DOI

10.1002/car.2389

PMID

unavailable

Abstract

Research into maternal protectiveness in domestic violence has focused either on women's experiences of mothering or children's experiences of growing up in domestic violence. This paper reports on a qualitative research study with both mothers and individuals who grew up in domestic violence that sought to explore perspectives on, and experiences of, maternal protectiveness in the two groups. The study used a feminist social constructionist theoretical perspective and a relational empowerment methodology, and involved interviews with nine mothers and 16 individuals who grew up in domestic violence. Thematic analysis revealed the different ways that mothers and children approached the question of so-called 'failure to protect'. Analysis revealed that themes of self-blame by the mothers and mother-blame by those who grew up in domestic violence were common, with three main thematic categories capturing the ways in which blame was constructed: (1) centring feminine traits; (2) self-blame and guilt; and (3) the double bind of protection. The paper explores the gendered discourses about mothering and femininity that frame practices of self-blame and mother-blame, elaborating the double bind of protection that women face. The paper also explores the implications for practitioners who work with domestic violence in balancing the need to strengthen connections between mothers and children and, at the same time, safeguard children. Copyright © 2015 John Wiley & Sons, Ltd.

'Thematic analysis revealed the different ways that mothers and children approached the question of so-called 'failure to protect''



Key Practitioner Messages




* Mothers commonly blame themselves for so-called 'failure to protect' their children in domestic violence.

* Individuals who grew up in violence often blame their mothers for 'failure to protect'.

* Mother-blame draws on a range of femininity and victim-blaming discourses that can entangle women and children further in violence.

* Practitioners can encourage communication between mothers and children to repair relationships after violence.

Language: en