Citation

Bell LG, Bell DC, Nakata Y. Fam. Process 2001; 40(2): 173-186.

Copyright

(Copyright © 2001, Family Process Institute, Publisher John Wiley and Sons)

DOI

10.1111/j.1545-5300.2001.4020100173.x

PMID

unavailable

Abstract

Using an indirect measure of family structure, relationships between parents and adolescents were studied in 99 U. S. and 60 Japanese families. As two-person relationships tend toward instability under stress, a third person may be drawn in to stabilize the system. Parents, for example, may avoid the tension in the marital relationship by focusing together on an adolescent's problem, or pull the adolescent into a coalition with one parent. Either way the parents are said to have “triangled” the adolescent. In this study, a relationship is found between parents avoiding tension in their own relationship and their tendency to triangle an adolescent. Triangled daughters, in both cultures, had lower scores on ego development, supporting the hypothesis that such patterns can be detrimental to the adolescent's personal development. The discussion includes comments on cross-cultural research.