Citation

Wexler DB. J. Psychother. Pract. Res. 1999; 8(2): 129-141.

Affiliation

Relationship Violence Training Institute, San Diego, California 92103, USA. dbwexler@home.com

Copyright

(Copyright © 1999, American Psychiatric Press)

DOI

unavailable

PMID

10079460

Abstract

Clinicians face formidable challenges in working with male perpetrators of domestic violence. Many treatment programs use a confrontational approach that emphasizes male entitlement and patriarchal societal attitudes, without honoring the genuine psychological pain of the abusive male. Although some men with strong psychopathic tendencies are almost impossible to treat, the majority of spouse-abusing males respond best to an empathic, client-centered, self psychological approach that also includes education about sociocultural issues and specific skill building. Understanding the deprivations in mirroring selfobject functions from which these men typically suffer facilitates clinical treatment response. While insisting that men take full responsibility for their abusive behavior, treatment approaches can still be most effective by addressing inherent psychological issues. Group leaders who can offer respect for perpetrators' history, their experience of powerlessness, and their emotional injuries in primary relationships are more likely to make an impact.

Language: en