Citation

Hecker L. J. Couple Relationsh. Ther. 2007; 6(1): 83.

Copyright

(Copyright © 2007, Informa - Taylor and Francis Group)

DOI

10.1300/J398v06n01_08

PMID

unavailable

Abstract

While the most common reaction to trauma is resilience, trauma can significantly alter one's ability to attach to another. Post traumatic stress disorder and other traumatic responses can have significant effects on couple relationships. In this chapter, the effect of trauma on couples is explored. Of particular significance to clinicians is the effect of childhood maltreatment on adult attachment bonds. As such, the relational ramifications of childhood maltreatment on couple relationships is discussed. While the potential damage trauma can inflict upon a couple relationship is remarkable, the source of healing that a couple relationship lends is also powerful. Relationship attachments appear to be a central mechanism in healing from trauma. As such, treating trauma within the context of the couple relationship leaves therapists with a particularly potent tool with which to address healing the wounds of past and present trauma. Couple therapy that addresses trauma can also allow the couple to assume a new, more cohesive whole.

Keywords: Trauma; couples; couple therapy; PTSD; childhood maltreatment; attachment; resilience; intimacy